CONNECTION SAVES LIVES

Positive words of hope and encouragement

We provide emotional support to veterans, military personnel, and other individuals, including youth through handwritten letters and care packages; removing the pressure of direct contact so there's less hesitation to reach out.

Whether it's a minor challenge or a major crisis no one should struggle alone. Request a letter for yourself or someone you care about today. 

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Gather with friends, family, coworkers, students, etc. to make an impact in your community.

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Join our team of volunteers who write caring letters to individuals who need emotional support.

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Whether through donations, volunteering, or sponsoring a program, every action makes a difference.

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THREE PROGRAMS. ONE MISSION.

We bring together emotional support, community outreach, and suicide intervention to provide comprehensive emotional support. Our unified approach breaks down stigma, fosters connection, and delivers hope.

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The Letter Connection provides peer-to-peer emotional support to veterans, military personnel, and other individuals, including youth through handwritten letters and care packages. 

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Bundles of Hope provides organizations that serve groups at risk of loneliness or isolation with bundles of anonymous handwritten letters for their patients, clients, residents, foster kids, etc.

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Purple Note Project is our flagship program developed to provide critical emotional support for hopelessness, isolation, suicidal thoughts, recent suicide attempts, psychiatric admissions, or loss from suicide.

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ABOUT US

Dedicated to fostering connection, breaking down mental health stigma, and providing support through emotional support, outreach, and suicide prevention.

We’re just people who care—people who know what it’s like to feel overwhelmed, to struggle with grief, anxiety, or the pain of losing someone to suicide. We’ve been there, and that’s why we do what we do.

We believe no one should go through their hardest moments feeling alone. We might not have all the answers, but we know that kindness and understanding can make a big difference.

We’re here to support people when life gets overwhelming. Whether someone is dealing with grief, anxiety, or something as heavy as recovering from a suicide attempt, we want them to know they’re not alone.

It’s not just about sending a letter—it’s about making sure people feel supported, understood, and like they matter, regardless of what they’re going through.

Every year, over 700,000 people die by suicide globally, according to the World Health Organization. In the U.S. alone, suicide is the second leading cause of death for people ages 10-34. For every death, there are many more who attempt and countless others who struggle in silence. These numbers tell a heartbreaking story, but they also highlight why support is so crucial.

When people are going through something like suicidal thoughts, depression, or anxiety, the feeling of isolation can be overwhelming. Studies show that social connection is one of the key factors that can prevent suicide. Just knowing that someone cares, that they’re not alone in what they’re feeling, can offer a lifeline during dark times.

The Say His Name Foundation was created to honor the life of Sgt. Dylan Joseph Holley who died tragically from suicide on September 17, 2023.

Dylan was a veteran who served 10 years in the United States military. First, in the Marine Corps as a 1371 Combat Engineer then, as a Paratrooper in the Army's 82nd Airborne Division. He served his country with pride, giving of himself as he did throughout his entire life. A warrior soul whose presence was felt by all who knew him. 

"Some cultures believe we die two deaths. Physical death being the first. The second, when there is no one left who remembers your name. So, we ask, that when you recount Dylan's epic journey, see his face, picture his smile, and say his name." - Uncle Joe

His love for his family was evident in everything he did, from his deep affection for his daughters, his loyalty to his wife, and the unwavering support he provided his fellow soldiers. His goofy personality brought laughter and light to those around him, and his loss is deeply felt by all who knew him.

Dylan’s legacy is one of selfless service, camaraderie, and genuine kindness, qualities that continue to inspire and guide those who were fortunate enough to have him in their lives.

TESTIMONIALS

Connie

Indiana

I have been getting these notes for a few months now. Today was a rough morning so as I carry all of them that I have received in my backpack. I sat at my desk before anyone else arrived and reread every single note. They really gave me the strength to make it through my day and I am ready for tomorrow. Thank you to Dylan's Mom and Kerri who I have received notes from. They really mean a lot when I am struggling.

Jorrie

Topeka VA Medical Center

Thank you so much for bringing this amazing gift [Bundles of Hope] to our Veterans! We had wonderful feedback from the Veterans and staff. They all felt this was a very powerful experience. We would be thrilled to make Say His Name an ongoing part of our programming.

Molly

Indiana

You have no idea how much your letters mean and how inspired I am by your words.

 

Sam

Mississippi

I’m just thankful of projects like this, I wish I had know about it several years ago. Any social interaction, even over letters, is desperately needed. Thank you.

 

Stephanie

I struggle with loneliness daily. Receiving letters from the Purple Note Project means so much to me! Every time I see a letter in my mailbox, it reminds me that someone cares about me and others. Thank you and God bless you!

Tiffany

Kansas

Thank you for this. Prayers for everyone.

 

SINCE SEPTEMBER 17, 2024

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